of jealousy and nonsense

Hi y'all.

This is not about me. This is what happened to my younger sis. Well, I was offended by the statement as well as we both studied overseas.

Rasulullah said before ' tuntutlah ilmu hingga ke negara China'. As muslims, we hold strongly in what the Prophet said. And my sis's friend says it as an idiom, which is wrong, and says that 'idiom' cannot be used nowadays.

Well, not only she refused to accept what was said by Rasulullah, she also refused to face up to reality.

Well, in justifying her statements, she said that there's no reason to study overseas if you are still jobless and your job doesnt pay you much even if you are already working. That proves how narrow-minded she is.

Because what you learn, and what job you have or whether you have a job or not is totally unrelated. If you manage to study overseas, that's because of your efforts, yes, and also His will. And whether it's better to study local than overseas, that's not for you to judge because, you havent been in both situations. Like I say how can you say the watermelon tastes better than honeydew when you have never eaten a honeydew before? So this is totally illogical, nonsensical and absolutely ridiculous. I'm not trying to say that studying overseas is better than local, what I'm trying to say, is that, experience makes you stronger whether it's good or not. They are people studying locals that are more successful than the ones studying overseas, because of the things that they have chosen and decided, and the experiences shape them to be what they are today.

If you did not get to study overseas, but then you get to work overseas, that is also because of His will. If you says it is useless for you to study overseas, then fine, but never criticise others because you choose how you want your experience to be. You dont have to judge experiences that are not even yours.

I can write and write endlessly, but I dont think it is necessary. It's just that, why on earth do you study? To get a good job? If that's all in your mind, even if you travel throughout the whole world, you will never learn anything. Think deeper, broaden your view, this world is not only about you.

To my sis, dont let this kind of people discourages you. If you want to gain knowledge to not only find a good job, but also to contribute to others, and you are sincere about it, then just do it. :) It's your experience that matters to you. Not theirs if it is to discourage you. :) Good luck for your first job! :D

in love

I'm in love with this song! :)

Enjoy!

untitled

I dont know why. But somehow I feel so frustrated right now. I feel like crying. :(

soon.

I have a good news. But until the official letter comes, I'll wait. :)

Pictorial Sydney

It started with goodbyes and farewells

And it all started here

 

 

Meeting new friends

 

 

 

 

 

 

Seeing new places

Celebrating eid mubarak in a new environment

Exploring interesting history

Still meeting with new friends

Having an adventurous blast

Breakfast-ing together

Celebrating together

Studying together with biotech-mates

Learned about australia

Ride-and-raya together

Having the coolest housemates ever

Having a chance to sandboarding

Struggling for my honours year

Knowing how awesome easter show is

Seeing more new faces

And having the last dinner together :(

These pictures are still not enough for me to share my experiences, take it as a summary of the summary of my journey in Sydney. Well I should put my graduation pics to sum the story up, but there is already an entry for that. So this is it. Yes, the things that I appreciate the most are the new faces that are now called friends, the new places that are now sweet memories, and the celebrations together that holds priceless feelings. And yes, I am missing all these.

Tsubasa no oreta tenshitachi

I've watched this short drama back in Sydney, like, nearly 20 times already. But somehow, it still makes me cry each time I watched this. I dont know. How do you think a 5-year-old boy feels when he is abandoned by his parents. With no place to go, no one to depend on, the fear of dying alone on the streets. Sedih gile okay! If you want to watch this, then you can go here. Have fun! :)

p/s: The boy looks exactly like my youngest brother when he was at that age. :)

critically.sick.and.tired.

I am sick and tired. Yes.

I am sick of you who seem to know a lot about the world but at the same time are being so surprisingly narrow-minded.

I am tired of you who are always treating people based on their wealth and status instead of treating everyone equally.

I am sick to hear you complain  and blame other people all the time while you just sit and do nothing about it.

I am tired with the concept ' do not do anything that will make people badmouthing you even if it is not the wrong thing to do' - like, seriously, it's not my fault that they are badmouthing me, it's their own fault!

I am sick with you saying that I have to trust you but you do not trust me because I do not deserve it.

I am tired with how the world works.

I am sick of you who always talk about law and justice, but somehow justice does not suit you. What do you think justice are? Just law, lawyers and criminals? Then you should try harder.

I am tired hearing you criticizing and judging other people, when you are no less the same.

This kind of disease cannot be cured by any medicine or doctor. You have to heal it yourself. A human's tongue is sharper than a sword. Think before you talk. You are not perfect, heck, you are not even close to perfect. So lay low mister.

If you are this type of people, then, yes, I am sick and tired of YOU. But if you are sick and tired of this kind of people too, then that makes two of us. :)

kosong

Saya kebosanan laa. Check email, ok banyak junk mails. Check facebook, ok takde notification, takde berita menarik, da abis mengstalk facebook orang, menengok gambar2 raya orang lain. Check mangareader.net, haish takde update manga terbaru. Nak main game, tadi baru khatam main ranch rush nonstop. takkan nak start balik? Nak buek apo ni? What to do? Tengok online blog, takde update jugak. Aish. Bosan. Bosan. Bosan. So bukak blog sendiri la, lagi best. Boleh merepek, makan kerepek, sampai lembik, nak mengembek pon boleh. Kan3? So sorry la kat sesiapa yang malang dapat bace post ni.

P/s: Saje nak kecoh. Da try style tudung baru lagi. tak tau la ok ke tak, more difficult than before, but i think it's interesting to give it a try. You know, mencuba. :) A bit messy sebab ni baru blaja nak buat. Hehehehe. Oh yea, ignore the other parts of me, gemuk gile okay!

kawin terus tak boleh ke?

Resah. Resah. Resah. Ingat nak kawin terus, tak payah bertunang. Bukan ape, zaman sekarang ni, bertunang pon da pakai banyak duit, daripada kita berbelanja berlebihan, bukan kah lebih baik kalau berjimat-cermat, elakkan membazir pada benda yang tak perlu? Itu cuma pendapat saya la. Tetapi ade juga orang-orang tua yang berkata, wajib bertunang tu, tak boleh nak kawin kalau belum bertunang. Jadi saya tak mahu la membuat benda tanpa mengetahui apa-apa, saya pon merajinkan la diri untuk menggooggle tentang hukum bertunang ini. 

Dalam satu website yang saya jumpa, katenye bertunang itu adelah sunnah Rasulullah saw. Di mana yang dimaksudkan dengan bertunang adalah lamaran dan deklarasi perjanjian untuk berkahwin, setelah selesai pertanyaan dan deklarasi, maka bertunang lah satu pasangan itu. menghantar cincin dan majlis yang kerap kita lihat sekarang itu hanyalah adat.

Pertunangan itu hanya medium untuk satu pasangan itu saling mengenali antara satu sama lain. Daripada satu website yang lain pula, katanya ade yang mengatakan hukum itu sunat, ade yang mengatakan pula harus. Ade yang mengatakan pula apabila masuk meminang, dan si wanita telah bersetuju, maka pertunangan telah pun berlaku.

Alhamdulillah, sedikit sebanyak terungkai misteri yang menyelubungi saya tentang hukum bertunang ini. InsyaAllah, saya akan bertunang, tapi mengikut hukum, bukan mengikut adat. Jadi, kalau ade sesiapa yang mungkin akan terkecil hati jikalau saya da bertunang, minta maaf la sebab saya takde buat majlis ni. Biarlah duit simpanan yang tak digunakan untuk majlis bertunang itu digunakan untuk kecemasan buat saya dan bakal suami ataupun insyaAllah untuk anak-anak saya nanti.

Costume Raya

A week of aidlifitri already man!! :) This year, my family celebrated aidilfitri in our home town, Kelana Jaya. We went to Sauk on the second raya and came back on the third. :))) Well this is not the best aidilfitri that I have celebrated, but still one of the most meaningful. :) Here are some pics! Actually I just want to show my baju raya, so no details about raya just the baju ok! :P

First raya

Second raya

Third raya

I feel kinda distracted right now bcos I'm having hiccups nonstop! :( So I've gotta go now. Bubye. ;)